As we all know it, the new year has just arrived, the Armageddon was postponed (l.o.l) and you hear some people asking about your New Year resolution. And you say to say to yourself what's the big deal?
Do you know that little piece of mindset of yours can be very responsible of your achieving of goals or your successful life at whole? And in the opposite be also responsible of your failures and your 'not so progressing' current conditions.
THE 80% OF YOU IS THE MOST IMPORTANT
Experts in psychology says that your talks and your visible attitudes and actions are showing only 20% of you. But the whopping 80% of you is actually what you always think in your mind (the inner you). So basically the shown 20% represents the real 80%. For example if you keep on complaining, it shows that the 80% in you (the real you) has negative traits. And this mental block can hurt your personal development.
This 80% part is a very important. Some call it mindset, Others call it 'what's always in my head' or 'how I think' or 'motivational attitude' . You can have a description of what's going on in the 'inner part ' by talking to someone.
What you should do to it is make it always positive, and make it think as a winner. What people say you have to have a 'positive mental attitude towards life'. In short, remove the negatives of it, the voice that keeps on saying 'You can't do it bro, your a born loser'. In 'Thinking Big' book, the best thing you. could do is fire Mr Negative. Just listen to 'Mr Triumph'.
So now, what's the relationship with the resolution?. A resolution is a target. Why do we have to have targets? It's a mark of your achievements. It's the 'high jump' bar that you've set to achieve. Athletes have them so why shouldn't you have them too ?
It's the targeting and setting the goals. A person who knows his destiny first will achieve it first. It's like you wanna go from Atlanta to New York, take a straight flight then going to other cities first then go to New York. Your college already knew he wanted to be an entrepreneur since college, no wonder he is now enjoying his revenue from his start up company.
Life is a race, If you don't even know where you want to be, than don't complain if your left by the 'train of life'.
If I'm unemployed and left behind, what should I do? First fix your inner motivation (that 80%), many people accelerated and achieved the pace. There are plenty of opportunities. And you have hidden talents you've never explored yet.
Setting a resolution is actually setting a target on achieving things. Such as : I wanna complete my e-book by ...., I will enroll to masters degree for a better future, I wanna lose 15% of my current weight by the end of the year.
So make that resolution, it doesn't have to be a very high one. Measure yourself. But if you have achieved it, rise the bar.And don't get satisfied easily, Some people are satisfied with good, but there is actually great or excellence.
Have a great New Year!
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